The VOW – The Vow of Priority (week 1)

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Welcome Back!!!

Welcome to a New LifeGroup Session!

Before we jump into our study, let’s take a moment to remember that there are THREE things we want to see happen every time our LifeGroups gather:

– Movement towards Each Other
– Movement towards God
– Movement towards our Community

Our questions follow this same format. All of the questions are designed towards movement. We hope you enjoy your time together in your LifeGroup.
**Remember, our goal is to deepen our relationship with Jesus and each other. Use the questions that are help and skip the rest.


Wedding vows are more than a declaration of love – they hold the keys to a strong, lasting marriage.
Whether you hope to get married someday or you’ve already tied the knot, discover what The VOW can mean to your present and future.

Last Week: Spend time this week in John 15:1-11. Rejoice in the Salvation of Jesus Christ and live in it this week!

Two Weeks Ago: Are you depending on something other than Jesus for your safety/security? What would it look like to rest completely in Him this week?

Key Verse:

 …’ Then all the disciples left him and fled.’” Matthew 26:56b

Movement Towards Each Other (know the people in your group)
What is the last spontaneous thing you did?

Movement Towards God (grow in your relationship with God)
If you had an extra hour in the day, what would you do with it?
What is the hardest part of having “time”?
Are you a planner or more of a free spirit?
What do you appreciate most about the opposite of you?
What drives you nuts about them?
What do you think are the top 3 priorities in your life?
Read Mark 12.28-31
In relationships, how do you prioritize things?
Why did Jesus put things in this order, God then others? How come we are last on the list?
How do make God top priority in real life?
What does it mean to “love your neighbor as yourself”?
How is this counter cultural today?
Read Genesis 2:24; Ephesians 5:28-33
Describe your ideal marriage.
What are some of the “good” things that come with marriage?
What are some distractions that can pop up in a marriage relationship?
Why do you think God set up marriage to make the spouse the priority?
What do you think happens when that changes?
Is it bad to have goals/pursuits in life?
How can those things become a priority in our lives?

Movement Towards Community (they see the change in you)
For those that are married, take time this week to evaluate your priorities and then read Ephesians 5:28-33. How are you doing?
For those that are single, take time this week to look at your life priorities and how they match up in your relationships. How are you doing?

Checking In Each Time We Meet: